Friday, March 11, 2005

|The Date with B.|

Among my goals for Spring Break is to go on a date with B.

In my inexperienced opinion, a date should not include sex (or the lesbianized sex that B and I have been engaging in given our identical and therefore opposed sexual preferences). Sex can happen, and the best dates often involve it, but how do you know if you are going on the date to have sex or having sex because you went on a great date? It's a fine line, a blurry distinction, greys all over the place, but still...

If you are getting together merely as a prelude to sex, seeing a movie as something to do before hopping in the sack, then it's not a date. Similarly, going to brunch "the morning after" is also not a date.

By my definition, B and I have yet to go on a date. Consequently, we are not actually dating. As to what we are doing, your guess is as good as mine. I do know that I loathe unclarity (?), but I'm also sure that my drive to force clarification has often been not unlike throwing sand in the gears of a ferris wheel.

In any case, I am determined to go on a date with B sometime in the next nine days. Wish me luck.


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